In today’s world, there are even fewer reasons to stay single, especially with the enormous number of eligible bachelors ready to meet the girl of their dreams.
The reality is, there is a high number of men who appreciate a woman who makes the first move.
This past week a video of a woman successfully making the first move has shown many on social media how easy and welcomed it is for women to make the first move.
Watch the video here:
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Here are a few reasons why women should be okay with making the first move:
Very few men have had this experience
Men typically consider it as a compliment when an attractive woman approaches them. In most cases when it’s the men approaching the women they do so with the knowledge that they might be rejected and they do it anyway.
A chance at love is worth it taking, for all you know the man you are approaching was waiting for a sign and a simple subtle approach is all they need from you.
Men tend to also avoid rejection
In certain instances, the only reason a man who is interested in you isn’t approaching you is that they are also avoiding facing rejection. Approaching your crush could erase all of that. Shoot your shot, it could be the start of something special.
The chase is sometimes exhausting
Men also appreciate not doing all the chasing, and sometimes want to sit back and relax. They also enjoy the prospect of new proposals, especially from women who meet their criteria. It’s okay to test the waters, for all you know you may be exactly what your crush has been waiting for all this time.
Men understand that daring to approach someone works
Unlike women, men have for years appreciated the knowledge that it matters to make an effort to approach someone they like. They also understand that they have better odds of being in a relationship if they put themselves out there. The truth is, the formula of making the first move has worked for men for a very long time.
Though a lot of women don’t approach first because of the “old” stereotype that it is the man’s place to do so. Whatever your belief is it’s important to know that there is a growing number of women who just took the chance.
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