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esakoane

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  • bonolomokalapa posted an update:   2 weeks, 1 day ago · View

    If you are in a relationship with someone that adores so much, please love them back. Don’t do things that will make them lose the trust in you and even break their heart. Do things that will make them happy & even strengthen your…
    Some people don’t know what they want, don’t value what they have and they are not contented with what they already have.

    You find someone who is already in a happy relationship with a person who loves them, cares about them, does things that make them happy, treasures them so much, doesn’t want to hurt them and lose them in anyway, is always patient & their for them in any situation, appreciates every little thing they do for them but still they have the audacity to flirt & sleep around with other people! Then you wonder why they act like that.

    Seriously, why dividing the love you have for someone that sacrifices a lot for you? Why betraying someone that loves you so much? Why toying around with their heart? Why wasting someone’s time yet you know it at heart that you don’t love them? Why using someone & loving them for fun? Why making someone raise their hope in you & plan their future with you yet you are not to stay with them forever? Why doing things that you well know that will hurt someone’s feelings and even break their heart? Why blinding someone with your sugar coated love? Why doing stupid things that won’t strengthen your relationship? What will you gain at the end of it all? Is it the good sex, money, luxurious earthly things, what? If it’s sex then you just myopic because sex is just temporary satisfaction. It can’t make someone have true love for you. Instead they’ll lust for you & use you as a sex object for their own satisfaction. Trust me if they were not meant to be yours the good sex won’t make them love you & stay with you. If it’s money you are up to, then you have a low thinking capacity because money is not everything. It can’t buy natural happiness & true love. Yeah, it can sustain your needs for a mean time but it can’t be enough & it can’t complete all your life desires. And if they’re these luxurious material things, trust me they’re nothing compared to love.

    Therefore, if you are in a relationship with someone that adores so much, please love them back. Don’t do things that will make them lose the trust in you and even break their heart. Do things that will make them happy & even strengthen your relationship. Be faithful, trustworthy & committed to the relationship. Respect them & appreciate what they do for you. Don’t let small things that can be solved tear you apart. Be there for them & always pray to God to make your relationship work. Value the person you have & be proud of them.

    Please put this into consideration and you’ll have a happy, lovely & strong relationship that will lead to marriage.

    I love y’all & God bless you

  • bonolomokalapa posted an update:   2 weeks, 1 day ago · View

    She has been foolish because she believed his lies, She has become strong because she learned to deal with the pain, She has been raising her child alone because no one else is going to do it, She has stopped complaining because she has owned up to her mistakes and accepts accountability, She has instilled strength in her children because they see she’s no quitter, She has been looked down upon but she still manages to keep her head up, She will be condemned for her mistakes instead of celebrated for her effort but she doesn’t care because each day she is fighting as hard as she can…I APPLAUD YOU MOTHERS!!

  • bonolomokalapa posted an update:   2 weeks, 1 day ago · View

    The best gift you can ever give your partner is your Heart, Trust, attention, time and your love.

  • bonolomokalapa posted an update:   2 weeks, 1 day ago · View

    Stop forcing someone to remember you all the time. Stop crying for someone’s attention and care. Stop pleading for someone to treat you in a special way. Stay silent and let them realize how they’ll be without you in their life. If they miss you then they’ll contact you and if they love you as they claim, they’ll put in some effort to prove it. And if they don’t do anything about it, then just know that you’ve been treating them as your priority yet they’re treating you as their option, a leisure time friend or lover

  • bonolomokalapa posted an update:   2 weeks, 1 day ago · View

    Life isn’t easy at all; There comes a point and we get to lose relationships that we thought will last forever, we become strangers to people we loved so much with all our hearts, we become enemies to our best friends, but eventually, all of the hurt is what makes us stronger than ever. Whatever situation you are going through right now or that you went through in your past and it hurt you so badly, don’t give up. Just be strong & keep moving forward

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